Whether you’ve acted dishonestly or this is more about your own feelings about how you want to be spending your time or what sexual behaviors match up with your personal values, I am here to help you align your sexual behaviors with your values and goals. Through individual or group therapy, I can help you heal your relationship to your own sexuality so that you are only acting in the ways you want to be acting. Your goals are for you to decide, but whatever they are, my goal is to make sure you are only acting in ways you feel good about.

Believe it or not, the data shows that non-monogamy (when it’s consensual) works just as well as monogamy. That’s a low bar, of course, but it means we can make your relationship work for you, no matter the structure you and your partner(s) have agreed to. Common structures I work with include:

-Exploring whether non-monogamy is for me/us

-Exploring what kind of non-monogamy is for me/us)

-Polyamory

-Open Relationships

-Swinging

-Monogamish

-Closed Polyamory

-We identify as monogamous, but there’s this one exception….

-Making Monogamy and Polyamory Work Together

From mismatched sexual desire and struggling to enjoy sexual activity to erectile problems, orgasm difficulties, and reaching orgasming faster than you want to, my work with you focuses on helping you create a fulfilling sexual life. Common issues we might work on include:

-Mismatched sexual desire (desire discrepancy)

-Low Sexual Desire

-Erectile Dysfunction

-Premature Ejaculation

-Delayed Ejaculation

-Pain During Sexual Activity

-Orgasm Disorders (or Troubles Reaching Orgasm)

-Sexual Trauma

Maybe you’re struggling to organize your life or you keep getting stuck forgetting things, perhaps overthinking the wrong issues and losing sight of the things that matter most to you. Or maybe you are having trouble understanding what people expect from you and why someone seems offended by a perfectly well-intended gesture. These are just two of the numerous examples of the kinds of things we can have a hard time with when our neurotype might be described as having ADHD, autism, identifying as a highly sensitive person (HSP), and the many other ways our brain might just not operate under the rules we were taught growing up.

Regardless what label (if any) feels best for you, what I do is I help you unwrap the gift that is your brain. For every challenge ADHD, autism, and the other neurotypes may pose, there is a corollary strength, a gift to the world and to you. We work to address the challenges that our brains and society present us while also ensuring we don’t get overly hung up in those challenges, so that, over time, we can focus more on building a life full of meaning, fulfillment, on connection.

Including sexual trauma, childhood trauma, loss, and betrayal.

I work with anxiety, depression, bipolar, anger, and other mood-related issues that aren’t always so easily tied to what you can identify as “reasons” for feeling the way that you feel.

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